Random Thoughts on Polyamory and Relationships From a Random Person on the Internet.
I did something a little different this time. This feels really vulnerable but I like making myself uncomfortable because that’s how we grow. 🙂 Enjoy!
Dear Employer, My name is Lucas Weeks, I’m polyamorous and I am in love with more than one person. That’s it, the cat is officially out of the bag. I started this blog 8 months ago and I kept my name out of everything on it since I started it. I felt the need toContinue reading “Dear Current or Future Employers”
Patterns are totally my thing. I’m really good at recognizing patterns. In fact, I taught myself to play piano at a young age. Not because I’m musically inclined but because the piano keys are a beautiful pattern of black and white that make pretty sounds. I liked matching the patterns up with the pictures onContinue reading “Neurodivergent Dating in Polyamory”
I’ve been thinking recently about how I’m 6 years deep into learning about polyamory and living it everyday, yet, I still find myself on monogamous thought tracks. Wwwwhhhhhyyyyy? I thought I was done with monogamy and had deprogrammed every part out of it out of my brain. Why is it still there? Deprogramming your brainContinue reading “Deprogramming Monogamy”
Dear Person I Care About Very Much, This letter was sent to you because I need to tell you something that’s very scary to share. While these aren’t my words, this is still very much my truth. Please read this all the way through and reserve judgement until you fully understand what I’m trying toContinue reading “I Need To Tell You Something…”
I know my blog went quiet for a few months. I didn’t want to take up space with my blog at a time when there are so many bigger things happening in our country. My thoughts on polyamory felt miniscule compared to all that was going on. I could sit here and tell you thatContinue reading “Today’s Polyamory Reminder”
Dear Polyamorist, This letter is for all you polyamorous heathens out there. To everyone that lurks in the shadows and is damaging society and all the arbitrary constructs we were raised to believe. I’m going to tell you all the reasons why what you’re doing is bad and why you should stop. This isn’t justContinue reading “An Open Letter To You Polyamorous Heathens”
Unicorn Hunting, in the most simplest terms, is the act of an established couple specifically looking for a bisexual person to join their existing relationship. It’s usually considered Unicorn Hunting when the existing couple hasn’t done the work to disentangle their current relationship enough to see themselves as unique individuals. It’s widely seen asContinue reading “How Do I Know If I’m Hunting Unicorns?”
Well… I did it. I reached that point in my polyam journey where it finally happened. I completely lost touch. I turned into that grumpy old man telling people to get off my lawn. However, in this scenario, the lawn was polyamory. Yup, I became one of those gatekeepers to polyamory. I’m really sad becauseContinue reading “Gatekeeping in Polyamory”
This one is just for fun. Everyone’s journey is different but surely you can relate to one of these stages. Stage 1 – OH SNAP! This is a thing?!?!?!?! You just learned that this is a thing that lots of people do. You are beside yourself. You immediately start to envision a future where yourContinue reading “5 Stages of Polyamory With The Office”
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